Thursday, August 1, 2013

1 month down already?!


7/27
This past month has flown by. I really cannot believe that we are leaving in about a week! I have been so blessed to spend the first month of my time here in Nekempte! It is a beautiful city filled with lots of love and laughter! The Limero's could not be any sweeter. They have been such gracious hosts and feel so much like family!

Speaking of family!!! I was able to Skype with a big chunk of mine today! It was so awesome to see their sweet smiling, and sometimes fish, faces! It sounds like they are having a great time and I am really loving seeing the pictures! Also, I am trying to get pictures uploaded, but I have not had much luck the few times I have tried, but I will keep trying because I really would love for you to see the faces that I see on a daily basis! I am really going to miss this place and these wonderful people.
The girls time and English class has been going amazing! I couldn't of asked for a better group of people to share life with. The English class meets Monday through Friday and so far I have a pretty steady group of about 11 to 12 people coming. It is usually all boys, but sometimes I get the treat of having a few of my girl students show up. I am going to have a awards ceremony/ party on Friday and those students that have only missed two classes or less get a certificate! They are very excited about this because here certificates are a big deal! I will probably have about 4 people that will get one! This is partially due to the fact that I have let people continue to join even up to last week.

Girls time is actually starting to become more and more like what I had imagined it would be. Like yesterday, I gave a Bible lesson on the fruits of the spirit and how to actually live them out in your life. Then, we talked about God having a plan for each of our lives. This lead me to the song “still that girl” by Britt Nicole! This song is a beautiful reminder of how God has a plan for all of us and how we all still have a that little girl inside of us that can change the world! If you haven't had the chance to listen to it, DO IT! At the end one of the girls, Galanie, prayed that they would all be like the girls I talked about that day and that we could all be like the girls in the song. This almost brought me to tears.
College time is another one of the pleasures I get to attend. Today was college time and we weren't able to get a translator, but it did not matter. We played games and just hung out with each other. This was a blessing in itself because a lot of times, between the language barrier, cultural differences, and just the fact that they see us as the missionaries; It can be hard to really just blend in and hang out as a group. That is why I am feel so blessed that in less than a month these guys and gals have become friends and it really does feel like hanging out! In fact two of the girls are going to come over on Monday and braid mine and Kayla's hair!

Last week we had five of the girls over for tea and it went awesome! Kayla and I were a little nervous about saying or doing the wrong thing. Once they got here, it was very clear that we had nothing to worry about. We served tea and it is customary to have a little snack, so upon Doretha's suggestion we served bananas(muzies), bread(dabo), and some delicious cookies(biscuits). The girls loved it and we had a blast. We played Uno once every one was finished with their chi(tea). After, Kayla and I laughed about how it really did feel like having some of our friends over.

7/28
We officially have one week until we leave Nikempt. :( :) :/ All of these faces are how I am feeling about that statement. I am going to be very sad to say goodbye to all of our new friends, so instead I will say “See you later!” There is a chance that Kayla and I can finish out our time in Ethiopia here, but this is still a big question mark. This will depend on how everything goes in Addis and where we feel God is calling us to be.

So please pray for clarity as I know that these next six-months will have a good part in deciding where I go when I come back and stay long-term. I know that Kayla would also love some prayer about this. She came on this six-month internship not really feeling like it would lead her to anything long-term, but I see her heart falling more and more in love with this beautiful country. I can not blame her.

I would also love if you could pray for me with diligence with my school work. I have always been more people focused rather than study focused. So as I am sure that you can imagine it has been very hard for me to stop and take the time for my studies. It does help that the things I have to do for school will help me while I am here. I have to read a few books and do some reports over them. The books are great and what I have read seems to be helpful. I have told a few people back at home that I struggle with this and they must have been praying today because today I chose to stay back from a fishing trip to work on some much needed school stuff.

Steve remembered me telling him stories about all my fond memories about fishing with my grandpa Ross and my uncle Dan. So since Steve, Kayla, and three of his children also enjoy fishing he took us to the reservoir the other day and it was a blast. He wanted to take us all again, but I needed to do some school stuff and Kayla has a Skype date with some of her family today. So he just took the kids and I am sure he is having a blast.

It is a beautiful day here today. As I am writing this blog there are literally birds chirping outside my open window, the sun shining, and a nice breeze coming in. It has been a pretty great rainy season so far. There definitely have been those days where I walk outside and think to myself that is going to be hot and dry and just as I have walked to far away from the house to turn back; the sky opens up and it pours. This may last fifteen minutes, just enough to get me soaked, or it may last the rest of the day. This is why I have learned to always have my rain jacket with me.

Funny story of the day. Doretha and I were headed back from the church with Caeden, Reagaan, and Rowan to start lunch (Steve, Kayla, and Andwyn had stopped to pick up some veggies at one of the vegetable stands). We got to the point in our walk where we take a bajaj (local taxi); so we got in and started driving when the driver turns to Doretha and asks, in Oromo, “Is that your baby or hers (gesturing towards me)?” Doretha sweetly replies “Mine!” So the man driving the bajaj says to her “Okay! I want to marry her then!” Doretha gave him a long talk about how he could not marry me because I am young and that he needed to find a nice Ethiopian woman for himself. He did not like this response so he continued to ask “why?”. She very kindly, but firmly just kept telling him that it was not going to happen and at the end of the bajaj ride she asked if he understood. He said “ No. I didn't.” She told him that he did and paid for the ride. I might add that the whole time that this was happening I was just smiling and trying to pick out the few oromo words that I knew, but I had no idea what they were talking about. Doretha told me afterwards and we got a good laugh out of it.

Kayla and I get marriage proposals all the time and they usually make for a pretty good story and a pretty good laugh. It is usually made better because they usually get our attention by yelling “FERINGIE!” which means “white person”. They do not mean anything by it, it is just what they have learned to call us to get our attention. I have joked with Kayla about when they ask my name to just say “Mecan co feringie.” which means “My name is white person.” I have told them before that I am not a feringie, I am an ethiopian and that makes them laugh and laugh. It is never a dull moment here.

There is always something we can find to do. There is a soccer field really close to the house. Kayla and I walked by and saw there was a game the other day; so we stopped and watched. It was awesome! Ethiopians play rain or shine here. They love their “football”. There were guys that were sliding everywhere. They did not care at all! We tried to explain to Calbessa, our Oromo teacher, american football and he looked so confused about why we would call it that. Tomorrow he is going to teach us one of their worship songs! I am so excited! Wish us luck!

Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you for your continued prayers and support. I can feel it!:) I can't believe that I have almost been here a month! AHHH

Lots of love!
Kait

Thursday, July 11, 2013

The Start Of This 6 Month Adventure!


July 2, 2013

    Romans 10:14 says “How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?” These are all excellent questions and the only way I can think to act upon this verse is to go. This has looked different in different seasons of my life. When I was younger I limited this verse to meaning that God wanted us all to take mission trips. As I started to grow in my walk with God I started to realize this was not limited to mission trips, but instead was meant to be instruction for how we live life everyday. We are to serve people daily wherever they are. That is how Christ lived His life while He was on Earth and that is how we are called to be.

     The people that God has called me to go and serve are the people of Ethiopia. I was blessed with opportunity to go to spend about two and a half months in Ethiopia last summer. There me and my three other teammates had experiences that will be forever in my mind and heart. While I was there I was able to teach some English classes that incorporated using the Bible as a tool to teach them. We also had the opportunity to work in a local school, help with the Hospice program, teach a few VBS's in a few neighboring cities, and do many other things that helped us to learn more about this beautiful country I feel called to serve in and the beautiful people that live in it. While we were doing all of these things my heart was longing to stay longer and longer and to never have to say goodbye to all of the sweet faces. They looked at me hungry to hear what I had to say and to let them play with my blonde hair and hold my hands just so they can compare the pigments of our skin.

    These memories are the ones that come to mind when I think about going back for SIX MONTHS! Wow! I still cannot believe that I will be here for that long! I intended to write this before I left for Ethiopia, but it didn't happen. I am kind of glad now that it didn't because I may not have been lead to write so soon.

    We arrived today and our flight was an hour and forty five minutes early. Don't worry we passed the time by trying to find Kayla's luggage that was left back in the states. Thankfully she should have it tomorrow! Kayla and I have already had a lot of adventures and we just got here. The plan has changed a few times, but as of right now we will be headed to Nikempt on Friday morning to stay for about a month with a wonderful family that lives there. I will have to keep everyone posted on what the plan is and what kind of things we will be doing. We talked a little about what we would be doing during the six months and if it's even half of how awesome it sounds than I am going to have the best 6 months!

    Well, It is about 1:39 p.m. In the states right now as I am writing this. That means that it is about 8:40 p.m. Here and we have to get up early tomorrow so that we can go get Kayla's luggage from the airport; not to mention that I am still pretty tired from traveling. So I better hit the sack. I love all of you and thank you again for supporting me in the many ways that you have. Thank you also for taking the time to read my blog. I am going to try my hardest to stay up with it!

Much love from Ethiopia,

Kait


7/4/13

    Happy fourth of July! We celebrated here with a wonderful meal and wonderful company! The fehls had some friends come over for dinner and it was a blast getting to know them and their wonderful children! There was so much laughter and even a dance show!

    Tomorrow we leave for Nekempt for 1 month! I am very excited to see what God will do with us while we are there. I pray that I can be a tool for Him. The most humbling thought to me is how God does not need us to fulfill His plan, but instead let's us be involved and live life with people, share laughter, and see the impact that you are having in their lives, and more often the impact they are having on you.

    I have really enjoyed these last few days with the Fehls and I know I am going to love Nekempt for the time that we are there and we went over the schedule today and I think I am going to love my entire 6 months! It is going to be filled with things I have done before and things that I have never done before, but am excited to see how it goes.

    Thank you for the continued prayers! I will continue to see what Ethiopia is going to reveal to me and report back as soon as I can!

Much love from Ethiopia!

Kait

July 9th

    So we have been in Nekempt for a whole week today! It has been a full week filled with English classes, girls time, college group on Saturday's, and so much family time. Kayla and I have been blessed to come into such a wonderful family. They have been so supportive and welcoming. I have really enjoyed my time here.

    Today was my second day teaching English and it went wonderfully. I have been doing tests to see what levels the students are on and if there was a need to increase the number of classes I offer. What I have found is that they know English in their minds, they are taught English in their classes at the University, but they are not confident enough to really speak it and they have a very hard time with comprehension.

    Today we were reading a book together and they had little problems reading the book, besides small issues with pronunciation and unfamiliar words in their culture, but when I asked them what had happened in the story directly after we had just read it aloud they could not tell me more than the main character. So I have my work cut out for me, but I am willing and so excited to see what the future will hold.
    Last Saturday, we went along with Steve to college time. This is a time where the college aged students in the community, can come to the church for fun and fellowship. We played volleyball, ping pong, racquet ball, and finished up the time by hearing a Bible lesson prepared by Steve. It was a great time had by all. This was a great start to our time here!

    On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday we have girl time. This is a small group that has been started to try to better get to know and understand what the women of this culture are going through and to show them that even though we live on different continents we are not that different. Yesterday, was the first girls time and it went fantastic!

    We have decided to go through at look at the woman of the Bible. Yesterday, Kayla taught the first part of Tamar's story and tomorrow I will finish up where she left off. In addition to Bible time we will be teaching English, pampering them, playing games, and just getting to know them. I am very excited about this, since women in this culture really don't have things just for them. Hopefully, when we leave the program will be able to be continued at least once a week! Please pray that we will continue to have a good turn out and that the women will see the value in themselves that our heavenly father sees in them.

    One of my favorite parts of the week, have been meal times. We all eat together as a family. We talk about how our day has been. Our highs and lows and what we are in need of prayer for. The whole family are prayer warriors. It is so nice to hear that they have stopped to pray for me multiple times throughout the day. This has been extremely helpful in calming my nerves about teaching in this new culture.

    Another part of my month has been language learning. Last summer I learned the language of Amharic, but during this stay I will be learning the language of oromo. It is a great language and I am having a blast learning. We have lessons every M-F from 8:30 to 9:30. After our language learning time we go on our language route; which lasts about an hour to an hour and a half. This consists of 3 or 4 stops. One is a stationary store called “OMG stationary”! This made us laugh the first time see saw it. The others are another stationary stop next door, a vegetable stand, and a chai/ bread shop. We have made other stops practicing our language, but these are the ones that we visit every day. I use the term shop very loosely, picture a 12 by 12 area with a tarp covering it. All of these places are tun by women and they are all so sweet.

    The other day we went to the chai shop and made friends with the woman next door and so she wanted us to stop by her shop. So, after we were finished we went next door and the lady from the first chai shop followed us to make sure that the lady from the second shop dried out our cups before she served us. This is important because if they don't dry out the cups we can get sick from the water left in the bottom of the cup. This made Kayla and I feel good that our new friend wanted to help us and cared enough to look out for us.

7/11

    Today is a more restful day. I woke up feeling nauseas and with an upset stomach. During breakfast Dorothea prayed that I would feel better and be able to continue with my daily tasks. I decided to still do language learning and the language route. It was nice to get out and get some fresh Ethiopian air. When we got back to the house I got ready for today's English class; which included picking out books to read with them and reading over the weekly Bible verse that I have them recite to me in English.
This week it was 1 Samuel 16:7, which is one of my favorite verses. If they are able to recite the verse, or at least come close, they receive a prize ( some local crackers that they all enjoy). Today only two recited the verse, but when the others saw that they received a prize if they did it. They were very quick to re-write down the verse so they could practice at home. I am very excited to see who is able to recite the verse tomorrow.

    Today, in addition to reading the books, we worked on the pronunciation of the words “the, their, with, and quickly”. These words are very hard for them because sounds like “ck” and “th” do not really exist in their language. This creates a big problem for them, since these sounds are everywhere in the English language. I have been really encouraged by their willingness to try different techniques. A few of the students, in just the short amount of time we have been working together, already seem to be getting close to mastering this. That makes me feel really great as a teacher.

    It is now after lunch and my stomach is feeling much better. The tow of the kids are playing with play-doh. We are going to do a fun craft after one of the kids wake up from nap. Today is going to be purely a day of preparation and recuperation. I have truly enjoyed every day here and I can not believe that it has not even been a full week of teaching. The family we are staying with have been a true blessing to both Kayla and I. I am sure that there is a lot more I could tell you and there will be a lot more stories to come in the future.

    OH and just to show you that I am the same Kait in Ethiopia that I am in America; I thought I would share a story with you that happened yesterday. We were doing our language lesson for the day and we realized that we had forgotten the props we use to talk about family. So I decided it would be a great idea for me to run next door on the wet cement to our room where they were. Well, I had gotten about two steps into my dash for the props and BOOM! I fell right on my tailbone and it has been hurting ever since. I am fine, just a little sore and really more embarrassed than anything since I had a huge mud stain on the back of my skirt.

Talk to you soon!
Ciao from Ethiopia!